Traditional Irish Wedding Ceremony Customs

When we think of weddings, most of us picture theweather permits). These cloaks are very beautiful
traditional ceremony that has been handed downand would make a lovely addition to your wedding
from Victorian England. In recent years, however,attire.
many engaged couples elect to forego thoseBut if the traditional Celtic gowns aren't your style,
traditions and use their wedding to celebrate theiryou can still incorporate some Irish customs into your
cultural roots. In this article, I'll provide many ways inattire. You could have your gown embroidered with
which couples can incorporate Irish customs into theirIrish symbols, such as the Celtic knot. You could use
own wedding ceremony, and in a following article, I'llhandmade Irish lace on your veil and/or dress. You
describe traditions regarding the wedding reception.could carry a traditional Irish linen handkerchief and/or
Invitations and other wedding stationery. In mostwear a green garter with a shamrock on it.
stationery stores, you can find images and symbolsThe groom could dress in traditional Celtic apparel, to
common to Ireland, such as shamrocks, heraldic harp,match the bride. Or for a more modern ceremony,
Celtic cross, Celtic love knot, swans, and thehe could wear a green cummerbund or tie with his
Claddaugh. You might also find that many places havetuxedo. Cufflinks sporting Celtic symbols might also
fonts derived from the Book of Kells for the wordingbe located or specially-ordered.
in your invitations.Another tradition regarding wedding attire is that the
Choosing a date for your wedding. Traditionally, mostIrish consider it lucky to be married in a pair of old
Celtic wedding ceremonies were held during one ofshoes. Lichte, in "Irish Wedding Traditions," states this
the four major festivals. If you wish to have a springcustom may derive from the "idea of beginning a
wedding, why not during Beltane, which occursnew journey with something familiar, like a favorite
around the first of May? For a summer wedding,pair of broken-in shoes" (46). Lichte also suggests
Lughnassadh was celebrated in early August. Samhain,using old shoes, rather than tin cans, on the back of
on November 1, is thought by many to be the Celts'the couple's getaway car as leather is believed to
New Year and is a popular time for weddingward off evil spirits and shoes symbolize fertility (47).
celebrations. The last of the four major festivals isEngagement and Wedding Rings. Today, many brides
Imbolc, which is celebrated on February 1.are choosing emerald engagement rings, rather than
Other days considered especially lucky to be marriedthe traditional diamond, to symbolize the Emerald Isle.
on include: the last Tuesday before Lent, Christmas,In Ireland, the most popular style of wedding rings is
New Year's, St. Patrick's Day, and December 31. Inthe Claddaugh. This gold band features two hands
"Irish Wedding Traditions", Shannon McMahon Lichteholding a heart which is topped with a crown. The
explains that "it is thought that your last memories ofhands represent friendship, the heart love, and the
the year you marry should be the happiest ones"crown loyalty. This ring has several legends
(13).surrounding it dating back to Medieval times.
Wedding Attire. If you are able to do so, considerIn addition, there are many manufacturers of
ordering your wedding gown from an Irish designer.wedding rings who utilize Celtic themes, such as the
There are many places on the internet where youtriquetra or Celtic knot. With so many styles to
can find traditional Celtic wedding apparel. Even inchoose from, there's sure to be one to please
America, you can find Celtic wedding designers; aeverybody.
web search will bring up numerous hits.This ends part one. I hope you've found these
If you do order a traditional Celtic wedding dress,suggestions helpful and that you'll also find part two
you might like to also wear a Kinsale cloak (if theequally informative.