The Self Healing Personality - Take Care of Yourself Using 3 Steps to De-Stress!

We all experience stress in our daily life. It is alsotaking illicit drugs. These responses are at best
quite common to have been prescribed a tranquilizer,temporary diversions and provide a brief sense of
to help you cope with stress. Juggling between a loadrelief and it leaves the person worse off than they
of tasks and things to worry about has become awere initially.
daily routine in all our lives. But amidst this stressfulHow do we start reacting positively toward stress?
life that you're living, did you ever stop to think howThe answer is to learning how to view your stressful
you need to take better care of yourself? Did yousituation in a different way. One that allows you to
ever stop to think about taking charge? Have youface the challenge, without essentially feeling
ever tried to destress?controlled, defeated or doomed by it. While most
Stress is not always a bad thing! Stress is a naturalpeople believe they have no choice when dealing with
reaction- a little of bit of stress is what keeps usthe stresses that occur in our daily lives, both large
going. This type of "acute" or "good" stress is whatand small, expected and unexpected, the fact
brings out the best in us in a project, or when facedremains that we do.
with a deadline or challenge. It is also what helps usPerception Change: I learned how to step back and
get through emergencies. However, how wetake a look at the bigger picture, and placed what
perceive and respond to stress is the key to takingseemed to be overwhelming into a broader
control. It can be the difference between maintainingperspective, which minimized its importance and
our health and developing a stress related disease.meaning.
More than 80 per cent of all doctor visits are stress1. Is this situation that important?
related. When we are exposed to prolonged or2. Will it be as upsetting as it is to me today,
undefined stress, or when several sources co-exist, ittomorrow, next week, next month, next year?
is much harder for us to recover and return to our3. What similar situations have I faced and lived
normal state.through?
Our bodies created a response to life threatening4. How do I feel about those now?
situations. Fear triggers an immediate surge of5. Can I feel the same way about this one?
hormones that prepares the body to run or fight. OnAffirmations: Another effective and valuable
the short term basis, that is an excellent, protectivetechnique I've learned is using affirmations. Believe it
mechanism from which the body recovers. However,or not, this is a powerful way to relax and overcome
dealing with stress on a continuous basis, in a waystress. Some of my favorite ones are:
that constantly causes the release of these stress1. This too shall pass
hormones, can lead to depletion of our adrenal glands.2. All things are possible.
Negative emotions actually trigger a cascade of3. I rise above this situation now, and move forward
physiological responses, including the release of4. Nothing can change my peace of mind-even this
norepinephrine, a chemical messenger known tosituation
suppress immune function. Also, the long term and5. I am in charge of the way I feel right now. Nothing
extra release of stress hormones such as cortisoloutside of me can change my peace of mind, unless
impacts the immune system by depressing theI allow it to do so.
production of antibodies and messing up how ourDeep Breathing: Did you know that taking a deep
bodies function.breath can actually change your body's physiology
Chronic (dis)tress is known to cause high bloodand relax it? Take a few deep breaths, the next
pressure and heart problems. It is also common totime you feel stressed. Focus on your breathing,
experience migraines, back pain and much more. Asmoving your diaphragm in and out. Do that for 2 or 3
you can see, negative stress renders the body moreminutes--keeping your attention on your breath, and
susceptible to a variety of diseases physical and/ornotice the improvement you feel at the end of this
psychological problems. Unfortunately, some peopleexercise.
have learned to suppress their emotions. emotions.Consistently using these proven and wonderfully
Others try to relieve their stress by smoking,simple techniques can have a profound impact on
overeating, gambling, excessive shopping or evenyour body, emotions and spirit.