Opening Your Heart to People

Opening your heart is essential.Wouldn't you rather heal your heart and create your
If your heart is open, and receptive, you will be ableabundant world?
to receive... not just abundant love, which will fill youWhen your heart is open, you are more sensitive and
with joy, but abundance in every other area. Anmore receptive. You appreciate and more deeply
open heart allows us to be blessed, and receive, intake in everything around you, from our emotions, to
every way, including financially.art and color, and other people.
When our heart is closed we feel less connected toFocus on Beauty or Love Heart Meditation
our self, Divinity, and other people. We do not see orA simple heart opening meditation is to look at a
receive our own beauty or goodness, or that ofbeautiful flower or play with a baby animal like a
others. We are less positive, and may even be bitter,puppy. You can imagine them instead, or envision the
angry or only experience negative emotions, whenface of someone you love. If your visual sense isn't
our heart is closed.well developed, you might meditate upon an
One of the reasons that we close our own hearts,appealing picture. It is key is to pick a meditation
closing out the hearts of others, is because we werefocus that naturally creates a feeling of love or
hurt or betrayed previously. Unfortunately, it is notappreciation.
unusual for people have experiences of physical,Heart Opening Phrase Meditation
emotional or mental abuse as children. It may not beAnother practice to open your heart is to relax, close
extreme. It may not be from one's family of origin. Ayour eyes and place your hands on your heart. Take
teacher may be judgmental or cruel, a neighbor maya deep breath, and allow yourself to relax and
have a consistently negative attitude, or it may,breathe even more deeply. Allow your heart to
indeed, be a parent or sibling who is unloving to us assoften and say to yourself, I am worth healing. I
we grow up.allow myself to open and heal my own heart.
If emotional traumas, abuse, or hurts, occurred whenYou can repeat those words, eyes closed, or
we were younger or as children, we may have notmeditate on an affirmation you choose. Pick
have had the skills to deal with, or appropriatelysomething with an emotional impact that is simple to
express, our intense pain. Also, some familiesremember. Consider phrases like:
discourage negative emotional expression such asI love and accept myself, I am enough.
anger or sadness. Other families do not know how toI am my beloved, and my beloved is mine.
encourage appropriate expression of negativeLove. Love. Love.
emotions, including sadness, grief, despair, orI am one with everything beautiful, including me.
depression. Sometimes people carry pain, at theI forgive myself for judging myself.
cellular level, and in the heart chakra, from anRepeat the phrase over and over, continuing to
unresolved incarnation AKA another lifetime.breath in and out, hands on your heart. Allow yourself
Any block inside of our being, in the heart chakra orto feel blessed and truly uplifted.
elsewhere, is a cellular level issue. Blocks are a barrierPain may come forth; if so, witness the leaf of pain
to receiving (and sometimes prevent us from givingfloat as it floats down a river of love. The pain will
as well). Obviously, every person would like to havedissipate at some point.
an open and clear heart, and being, so that theyLove Light Heart Meditation
could set intentions and easily manifest and receive3. Envision a stream of Divine and Holy Light and
them.Love, emanating from an unending Source above
Don't you wish to receive relationship, material andyou. Allow that pure Light and Love to enter the top
emotional and other types of abundance? Joy andof your head and fill your heart and being. Focus on
love are such bliss. A life without financial orthe sparkling and healing loving energy, flooding your
relationship stress allows one to intend, create andheart chakra area and spreading outward, until you
receive and to pursue greater wisdom, spirituality andfeel warm and tingling in your heart and body.
self-expression. Many people spend vast amounts ofTry these simple practices to open your heart. Use
time focused on or in poor relationships or dealingof any of them for extended periods of time will
with financial hardship and related issues.bring powerful Spiritual and heart-opening rewards.