How to Trust and Use Your Inner Voice

Have you ever read a self-help book that tells youa yes or another affirmative response.
that you have wisdom within, and you found it hard4. Make a specific request for an idea, direction, or
to accept that fact? Or, have you been told to listeninformation you need in dealing with your current
to your inner voice and trust your intuition--and yetcrisis. No matter what appears in your mind or
your scientific conditioning tells you to discard suchthoughts, even if it does not make sense, consider it
nonsense? And how about the advice to paycarefully. Most of us have prior expectations that
attention to what your conscience is telling you?often cloud and confuse what comes into our
All of these admonitions have a long history ofconscious awareness. So make a careful examination.
existence, even if many people believe that without5. Ask follow up questions and see what comes back
worldly experience it's impossible to have insight orin return. As your thoughts and images appear
wisdom. In reality, nothing is further from the truth.throughout your search for the wisdom within, have
The experiences of young and old alike give firsta pen and pencil handy, so you can write down or
hand evidence that in a mysterious way--not fullydraw what you experience. Sometimes you may get
understood by anyone--we all get critical informationa sense of what to do and not have an image or a
from we no not where (we just say within or fromsound as a sign. You just "know" this is the way to
the unconscious).go in addressing your issue. It will feel good. It will
The fact is, useful information for decision making,feel right.
and living with all of the losses and changes in life,6. Whatever you receive from the experience let
frequently shows up at just the right time. Manyyour heart and your reason work through the various
have attributed it to guardian angels, spiritual guides,scenarios that could play out, if you act on the
inherent intuition, imaginary playmates, the inner voiceadvice. Consider alternative ways of interpreting what
of love, deceased loved ones, or the kingdom ofcame up, who would be affected, and whether the
God within. In any event, inner guidance is available tonew choices you have before you are perhaps too
anyone who is open to it and chooses to ask for it.risky to put to work at this time. Always weigh
Here's how to utilize this powerful and often unusedbenefits and disadvantages in an atmosphere of love.
resource.7. Because we have all been conditioned by society
1. Find a quiet place where you can relax and feelto expect instant success or there is something
secure without interruptions. Take some deepwrong with us, give yourself time to develop the
abdominal breaths and tell yourself to slow down andfaith in contacting the wisdom and the source of that
release the tension in muscles. Pretend you arewisdom that lies within. It is there and you can be
descending in an elevator, going deeper and deepersure it will pour forth if you are patient. Persist.
within your mind and heart. Listen for the silence.And what should you do if on a very rare occasion a
Give yourself a few more minutes to fully relax. Thennegative or demeaning image or thought comes forth
picture where you feel the originator or source offrom your request for help? Realize this is not your
your wisdom might reside.inner wisdom surfacing. Most likely, it is a punitive
2. Now ask for an image or sign from whomeverauthority figure from the past. The love that is
(God, your angel, a deceased loved one, yourbehind the inner gift would not permit a hurtful
unconscious mind, etc.) you feel is responsible for themessage as wisdom. Learn to ferret out whatever
many flashes of insight and useful ideas that in themight be useful, but dismiss the hostility and continue
past seem to have come out of nowhere. Listen foryour search. You do not have to submit your interior
what pops into your thoughts or what imagelife to an enemy that does not belong there.
appears. Study it carefully.To summarize, if you want to be transformed, trust
3. Ask your inner advisor, in whatever form ityour inner voice--your best intuitions. The wisdom we
appears, if he/she will help you in dealing with aneed is there for the asking and the listening. Our
current problem or decision you have to make. Listen.culture has trained us to dismiss this useful resource.
Carefully observe what appears in your thoughts orConsult your heart first, and your reason will catch up
in image form. Make every attempt to relax andlater. Trust yourself to make the choices and
comfortably relate to what appears, just as youdecisions that present themselves. We all possess
would with an old trusted friend. The image maythat inherent capability to profit from the amazing
change in answer to your question, or you may hearindividuals that we are.