| Working as a fortune teller and magic spell caster on | | | | Now, to the big question. Is a spell right for you? The |
| my website, I get a lot of requests for spells to | | | | first thing to consider are the three points above. |
| reuinite a couple who have broken up. However, | | | | Really contemplate them as they relate to a |
| many people don't seem to realize what they are | | | | reconciliation spell. |
| getting into; this is sensible, as many people turn to | | | | The first point is you need to make an effort. Are |
| magic for the first time in these kinds of cases. Let's | | | | you really willing to do this? In the case of a |
| begin first by covering what to expect from a good, | | | | reconciliation it might mean making sacrifices in your |
| honest spellcaster | | | | lifestyle, compromising on important points, or making |
| - A genuine spellcaster will never guarantee results. | | | | other major changes to your behavior or manner of |
| Magic just doesn't work that way. Even doctors don't | | | | living. You also need to be persistant, steadfast, and |
| guarantee that medicines or surgeries will work the | | | | devoted. Really think this over: so many people, in |
| way you want; there are too many things that can | | | | the heat of emotion, swear "Yes, I will do anything |
| go wrong. Similarly, magic spells are vulnerable to | | | | to win him back!" yet, when faced with the actuality |
| outside influences and even a promising spellcast can | | | | of it, can't pull through. They become aggravated |
| be readily spoiled by both internal and external | | | | that the other person isn't treating them well enough, |
| factors. | | | | or complain they simply can't do this-or-that because |
| - A genuine caster won't pester you to buy so-called | | | | of some reason. In consequence, things either don't |
| "stronger" spells after concluding your original casting. | | | | progress at all or else find a quick burst of |
| Only rarely might a genuine magic spellcaster ever tell | | | | improvement that fades out quickly once the person |
| you that you need to get more spellwork done after | | | | decides they don't want to work anymore. If you |
| completing your magic spell; and in such a case, they | | | | want to spend a lifetime with this person, you can |
| won't be pushy about it ask for exhorbitant amounts | | | | look forward to a lifetime of work. It's not a |
| of money. They will generally just state the problem, | | | | one-time deal; unless you permanently correct |
| and leave it entirely up to you as to whether you | | | | whatever drove them from you to start, they won't |
| want to continue with more spellwork or with their | | | | permanently stay. |
| services. | | | | The next point was to have realistic expectations. I |
| - Anyone who asks for large amounts of money but | | | | think this actually is the cause of some of the failures |
| promises to give it back if the spell doesn't work is a | | | | relating to the first point: people expect too much |
| fraud; if a spell is really worth a large sum it either | | | | from the spell, believing it'll solve everything |
| requires lots of hard work or very expensive | | | | overnight, or that it will turn the target into some |
| ingredients, neither of which is a person likely to | | | | idealized version of his or herself. You can't turn a |
| refund if they really are doing what they claim. Most | | | | sow's ear into a silk purse; and you can't turn the |
| people who pull this just take your money and run. A | | | | target into someone they are not (and really, why |
| real spellcaster asks for what money they need | | | | would you want to?) If you are going to be |
| because it is indeed what they need; their expenses | | | | disappointed when your sullen, melancholic boyfriend |
| and efforts don't just vanish if the spell doesn't come | | | | comes back to you sullen and melancholic, don't get a |
| out. | | | | return lover spell. If you are going to be upset by |
| So many of my clients and friends come complaining | | | | having to spend weeks or even months cultivating |
| that they went to other, fradulent spellcasters | | | | the relationship to bring it back to its former glory, |
| before who did the above tricks. Your best bet is to | | | | don't get a return lover spell. The spell itself is not a |
| think of spellcasting the way you'd think of medical | | | | cure-all; you need to do your part. |
| treatment: a doctor is not necessarily a fraud just | | | | Finally, be realistic about the situation. So often I get |
| because his treatment doesn't produce the desired | | | | clients insisting "She only left me because of her |
| results, however, he may well be a fraud if he makes | | | | family members" or "He only left because of his |
| promises he has no business making. If he has an | | | | friends." Nobody only leaves because of that; if they |
| experimental treatment he thinks may help, that's | | | | chose their friends over you, there is a reason they |
| what he'll say: not "I guarantee this new treatment | | | | liked them better. Even worse are the people who |
| will cure you completely!" | | | | insist that someone must have placed a "breakup |
| Knowledge is power, and knowing what is reasonable | | | | curse" on them -- I've dealt with many of these |
| to expect from a spellcast can be the first step | | | | types and not one had any good evidence for |
| toward identifying a good caster. Because there are | | | | someone putting a curse on them, beyond that they |
| some differences between magical belief systems | | | | simply broke up -- which happens to people all the |
| (for example, some casters believe in karma and will | | | | time, curse free. Examine your life together; don't be |
| warn against or even refuse some types of spells; | | | | afraid to admit unflattering truths. Did she really leave |
| other traditions don't believe in this, and their casters | | | | because her parents have an inexplicable grudge |
| are willing to consider any kind of work you ask for) | | | | against you and somehow manipulated and forced |
| there can be a bit of variation, but some good | | | | her to abide their wishes, or did she leave because |
| general rules are: | | | | her parents provide a more loving and secure |
| - You still need to do practical work to achieve your | | | | environment than you do? Do you really have reason |
| goal -- you cannot act in a completely contradictory | | | | to think an enemy who practices black magic decided |
| way and still expect success. | | | | to ruin your relationship and put a spell on you, or |
| - Your expectations need to be realistic. Magic can | | | | could it be that your romance fizzled out on its own |
| work miracles, but that doesn't mean you should | | | | because of lack of progression, stress, or some |
| count on them occurring. If something is absolutely | | | | other factor? Are you really as nice and charming as |
| impossible then magic will not change that. | | | | you imagine yourself? Is she really and kind and |
| - Be aware of the reality of your situation. This is | | | | devoted as you imagined her? |
| both for your benefit and for any caster you hire. | | | | If you have carefully considered all these points, |
| You may have to acknowledge faults in your self for | | | | determined realistically what the problem is and |
| this to occur, or face some painful truths, but this is | | | | understand that you may still have a lot of work |
| important toward knowing the way to effectively | | | | ahead of you, congratulations. You are now ready to |
| help yourself. | | | | make magic. |