| If you are facing the difficult task of healing | | | | the time needed to fix them. If you can't make a |
| relationship wounds you will need to be wiling to really | | | | 100% commitment to changing your behavior than |
| invest some time and effort. | | | | you might as well end the relationship right now. |
| You can fix your relationship but it won't necessarily | | | | There's no point in dragging you and your partner |
| be quick and easy, and you won't be able to do it all | | | | through further pain. |
| on your own. | | | | Another thing you will need to honestly consider is |
| There are many steps you will need to take to repair | | | | whether or not your partner will be willing to work on |
| your broken relationship. A lot of what you will have | | | | the relationship too. |
| to do will depend on what broke the relationship in | | | | No matter how sincere you are and motivated to |
| the first place. | | | | make changes, it will take both of you working |
| It's usually not just one or two things and it usually | | | | together to get things back to a good place. You |
| takes a long time and a buildup of many smaller | | | | can't do it all alone, and neither can your partner. |
| issues that eventually tear down your relationship. | | | | If you aren't both committed to making it work, it's |
| Finding the cause of the break down is the first thing | | | | also time to move on. |
| you will need to do in order to come up with a 'game | | | | Something else you will need to consider is that if |
| plan' to fix it. You wouldn't expect your mechanic to | | | | you save your relationship it will never totally be |
| fix your car without first knowing what was wrong | | | | 'back the way it used to be'. That doesn't mean it |
| with it, would you? The same principle applies to your | | | | can't still be good, it can. It just means that |
| relationship. | | | | whatever the two of you have gone through has |
| Not only will you need to figure out what went | | | | left some scars that will always be there. |
| wrong you will need to honestly figure out what part | | | | Keep these things in mind when you are healing |
| you played in it. That can be very hard for most | | | | relationship wounds. |
| people. | | | | If your relationship is truly worth saving, and your |
| No one wants to admit they've been wrong or made | | | | partner is willing to meet you half way and work on |
| mistakes... but you can't fix it until you know what is | | | | it, you can fix the relationship and even make it |
| broken so you will have to be honestly, maybe | | | | better than it was before. |
| brutally honestly, to evaluate the way you've | | | | It'll just take some time...and lot's of love. |
| behaved in the relationship and what things you've | | | | For further help in getting your relaitonship back on |
| done, or said, that might have contributed to the | | | | track .... healing the wounds it has suffered ... providing |
| break down. | | | | you know for a fact that is what you want to try to |
| And yes, what you have said can play just a big a | | | | do no matter what .. read How to Fix Your Broken |
| role in a broken relationship as what you've done. | | | | Relationship. |
| Never forget that words can wound and those | | | | You will be guided there to help that could lead you |
| wounds are often the hardest ones to heal. | | | | to not only repairing your relationship but ensuring .. |
| Once you've figured out the mistakes you've made | | | | once it is repaired .. that you will never again allow it |
| you will need to determine if you're wiling to invest | | | | to get to where it is today. |