Give and Fill Your Jar!

I feel so much curiosity when people describeand keep nothing for themselves. This is admirable,
themselves as "giving persons". And there is aand thanks God for them! The thing is that not
question that seems to be out of sight. And thateverybody is cut out for that kind of service. There
question is: what is it you give? The same thingare people who want to be in "balance" and they
occurs every time a leader describes himself as akeep postponing their own happiness by not giving to
committed person. And then their results show athemselves what they truly deserve in first place.
completely opposite thing.Having said that, if is it true that there's nothing we
There is no doubt that we (in general) are committedcan give that we don't give to ourselves; then are
because commitment is always there. We just focuswe really giving? We most take care of ourselves;
that commitment to the opposite direction of ourotherwise we will be filling cups without filling our own
dearest dreams. So, the question is: what you arejar.
committed with? Are you committed with the lifeOnce a wonderful woman say to me: "For my family
drama, control and reason? Or are you committedI jump mountains. For me, I am afraid to heights!
with love, discipline, being result oriented or with yourWhen we take a closer look to her results she
spirituality?realizes that is a community leader and professional
So! Of course we will never have the life of ourwith serious health challenges... Again! Everything out...
dreams if we insist in focus in those things thatnothing going in.
doesn't grow us at all. Particularly when we areHave you ever thought that every relationship issue
unconscious. When we let ourselves to step asidein your life has nothing to do with the people that
and look the big picture from the right perspective,don't value your presence? What if they are actually
we may realized that we will never be able to givegiving their 100% and it's you who feel is not enough
unconditionally until we understand and learn how toand want to control the way they demonstrate love
receive in a unconditional way.to you? What if where you say there is love in you,
Well, what we have so far? As simple as this: Nothere's Ego instead? Oh! I know is uncomfortable, to
matter if you think that you are committed withlook inside is the hardest thing to do; we usually don't
those things that matter most in your life, if you dowant to reconnect with stuff that we try to forget,
not have the results that aloud you to experienceright? But please, try it!
inner peace in everything you do, you are wastingToday is a new day. And there is no doubt that you
your energy in everything else. If you think that youhave a great opportunity on this present, right now!
are a giver and your results say that you are takingTo choose wisely, deeper, higher and heart felted.
away... You should pay attention in those things youAre you accessible to let go any expectation? Today
are not listening.is your day! Go and fill your Jar!
There are people who give everything to everyone