| It seems almost a cliche'. | | | | resonance come from your unconscious mind. |
| "Avoid negative people. Eliminate them from your life! | | | | However, there is one easy and effective way to |
| They'll only bring you down. One bad apple..." | | | | start working on your resonance right now. By |
| On the surface, it seems like good advice. We all | | | | working with your thoughts and feelings in a very |
| want to feel good. Happy. Successful. | | | | specific way. |
| How can you feel good if you're around someone | | | | Don't seek to avoid so-called negative people. It's |
| who's miserable? Just get away from them! What a | | | | much wiser to seek them out. But only if you do it |
| simple solution. | | | | with this one goal in mind. Here's what you do: |
| Too bad it doesn't work. | | | | Work with how YOU feel (and what YOU think) |
| Another cliche' - which is much more than a saying - | | | | when you are around the person you look down |
| is that we are all one. Certainly, we're all one | | | | upon. If you will truly and honestly look at YOUR |
| consciousness. There is no separation of | | | | emotions - perhaps to process them by writing them |
| consciousness. Not really. It only seems that way | | | | down - or simply to feel them cleanly... it's like a |
| cause we're living in a duality. | | | | SHORT CUT to changing your resonance. |
| Consciousness is one. With many different | | | | It can quickly and effectively change YOU. |
| expressions. | | | | Here's the trick: if you don't cleanly process your |
| What really happens when I try to separate myself | | | | emotions, things will stay the same. Same judgments. |
| from an expression of consciousness I don't like? | | | | Same pity. Same frustrations. Etc. Nothing will change. |
| Many things. None of them helpful. At the very least, | | | | You'll be on an endless cycle - feeling the exact same |
| I'm giving my power away. | | | | feelings over and over. |
| "I'm not powerful enough to be around this other | | | | That's how you KNOW whether or not you're |
| person. They're more powerful than me." | | | | processing your emotions cleanly. |
| I'm telling my subconscious I'm not powerful. I'm | | | | Perhaps the easiest way to process: write down |
| giving away my power. I'm telling my subconscious | | | | those thoughts and feelings that come up when |
| that so-called 'negativity' is more powerful than MY - | | | | you're around this 'lesser' person. Write them down |
| ahem - so-called 'goodness'. | | | | today. Write them down tomorrow. And the next |
| You're automatically making judgments that may or | | | | day. |
| not be true. Is misery really more powerful that | | | | Even if you don't believe you can cleanly think and |
| goodness? Do I really need to avoid... run-away... | | | | feel, you can ALWAYS take pen to paper. It's the |
| separate myself - from ANYthing? | | | | absolute easiest way to get to the point of cleanly |
| Here's why the notion of avoiding negative people | | | | processing your emotions. Which may be the best |
| NEVER works: | | | | way to raise your resonance. |
| You have a certain resonance. A frequency of | | | | Because it allows you to release the trapped |
| vibration. Your resonance naturally attracts the | | | | emotions that are part of your present resonance. |
| people, places, and things that MOST MATCH your | | | | Release the trapped emotions, and YOU change. |
| resonance. | | | | Instantly. |
| It's impossible to 'avoid' anything. Either you attract it | | | | Then, either the other person will leave... or they will |
| in your life - by your resonance - or you don't. | | | | change... or, it simply won't bother you anymore. And |
| Pushing away an unpleasant 'form' (someone you're | | | | by focusing on what repels you - it's like taking a |
| judging) will simply cause the form to bounce back. | | | | short cut to improving YOURSELF. |
| Either the same person, or another person with a | | | | Otherwise, you can spend the rest of your life trying |
| similar resonance, will soon be back in your life. | | | | to push away from what you're 'too good' to |
| The tricky/unknown part: | | | | experience. |
| What is your resonance? And how can you change it | | | | Think about it. You can accelerate your own personal |
| so you DO naturally attract into your life those things | | | | growth by seeking out those people whom you |
| you say you want? While simultaneously NOT | | | | judge. They're only reflecting what you deny in |
| attracting those things you say you DON'T want? | | | | yourself. There's only one consciousness. In many |
| Your resonance is made up of many different | | | | different forms. |
| components. Most are not easily under your control. | | | | Don't forget to thank them. |
| For example, the main components of your | | | | |