Discovering Life Balance Through the Wheel of the Year

My personal journey with the Wheel of the Yearfrom that ceremony lasted for weeks.
began in 1988, with my soul's first deep longing cryIn a large Summer Solstice celebration one year, I
for the voice of the Divine Feminine. That August Icreated a ceremony around abundance to honor one
had just moved from Los Angeles back to the landof the primary teachings of that season. One of the
of rain, trees, and family on the outskirts of Atlantakey elements I included in the ceremony was a fun
where I grew up. All of my early childhood churchdance called an "a-bun-dance" to call abundance into
study and later metaphysical training up to that pointour lives. We danced all night, activating abundance,
had only a Divine Masculine voice, and I ached for theand came away revitalized.
balance that could only be found when the richnessThe Wheel gradually took deep root in my life, and
of the feminine was included.as I worked with it personally I also began facilitating
As I searched for the Goddess, I grew frustratedit in workshops. Then a couple of years ago, when I
with celebrating religious holidays that I no longerwas doing research for another subject, I made a
connected with. Books began to cross my path thatkey discovery. I found out that in ancient China,
spoke of the Wheel of the Year and I beganpeople interested in observing nature placed a pole
working with those magical times. Eventually, a friendapproximately 8-feet tall in the ground and measured
and I gathered a group of women together and wethe amount of shadow and light created by the sun
created a ceremony for each of the Wheel points:over the course of a year. The resulting pattern
Winter Solstice, Imbolc, Spring Equinox, Beltane,from these measurements became one of their
Summer Solstice, Lughnasad, Autumnal Equinox, andmost sacred symbols - the yin/yang. The sun actually
Samhain. Honoring the wheel in this way for the firstcreates the symbol in shadow and light over the
time actively opened me to a greater connectioncourse of a year. While I knew the patterns of light
with nature and deeply anchored the wheel in myand dark changed, I had never seen it as so
psyche, enlivening it in my life. I began understandingbalanced. You can see on the symbol the movement
the fluidity of holding a circular/wheel understandingof the sun as its most extreme dark time in the
of time rather than a strictly linear one, and the moreNorthern Hemisphere, Winter Solstice, brings forth
I worked with the Wheel, the more those revelationsthe light cycle and as the most extreme light time,
continued to show themselves to me.Summer Solstice, subtly gives birth to the dark part
One of the most potent inner transformations cameof the cycle once again. Also, the yin/yang shows
as I began decorating my tree for Winter Solsticethe two places where the light and the dark fall into
with a magical theme, instead of modeling it after thecomplete balance when the equinoxes occur.
décor matching trees of my youth. I broughtUnderstanding where this powerful symbol of balance
in a living evergreen tree, which I would later plant incame from assisted me in more deeply understanding
my yard, as a symbol of the everlasting nature ofthe Wheel of the Year and how energies flow
the Goddess. I then connected each aspect ofthroughout the life cycle as well. The cycle of the
decorating my tree to what I wanted to create inWheel and the cycle of life take the same journey--
the growing year. I hung gold balls to represent thestarting with the dark, fallow time in winter as the
sun, long strands of silver tinsel to represent rain, andearth rests and rejuvenates, moving to the gradual
pinecones and nuts to symbolize fertility in all mywarming of the soil with the light of the sun until it
endeavors. I created ornaments with words such asheats enough for planting in the spring, then moving
love, creativity, and happiness and I tied little sparklyinto the full brightness of light during the summer
bundles of money to the branches. My tree becamegrowing time. Then, the light gradually recedes to the
a place of gratitude for the blessings found in my lifefall harvest, and finally diminishes until the crops die
both at that moment and for the year ahead.and the earth settles in for its period of dark winter
My magic tree helped me to integrate my family ofrejuvenation once again. For most of us, the cycle of
origin's celebration of Christmas into a time of yearlife follows this same pattern as we gestate in the
that we all could celebrate with more authenticity. Iwomb's darkness, are born and grow from childhood
started honoring the entire period from Winterinto adulthood and then into our elder years, moving
Solstice through Christmas. I hosted a ceremony foron to our death and our next expression.
Winter Solstice and then enjoyed some of theThe energy of the great wheel has shown me that
traditions of Christmas with my family. A few yearstoo much light and outer world activity leaves little
later, I began holding Wheel of the Year ceremoniestime for rest or quiet and burns out my system. A
and celebrations in my community. The first year, sixbusy external life requires balance found during the
people attended Winter Solstice. Now, 15 years later,darkness, the peaceful rest times. That quiet inner
this ceremony averages well over a hundredtime creates the place where I am receptive to inner
attendees.voice of Spirit, and where the seeds of my desires
In the years that followed, on Imbolc, the crossare planted, developed, and grown. Working with the
quarter day between Winter Solstice and SpringWheel, l have learned to appreciate the light and
Equinox, a group of friends and I conducted abright times of life that bring me into the outer world
networking ceremony. At this seasonal time wefor growth, joy, and creativity, as well as those
traditionally chose additional 'seeds' we wanted totimes that take me deep into my inner darkness for
plant in our lives for the growing season, and werejuvenation, and physical and emotional healing. I've
applied that to our professional lives. In ourconnected to my to my own yin and yang cycles,
ceremony, each of us spoke about our professionsmy inner balance and wholeness.
and shared business cards, with the intention ofThe light balances itself fully over the course of a
sowing a more abundant work season throughyear, with time for outer world growing activity,
networking for the upcoming growing cycle.harvest energy, and then time for deep reflection. As
One of the most memorable Spring EquinoxEarth's seasons turn and change, I learned from
celebrations I co-created and participated in happenednature that my life follows this same rhythm of
with my first women's group. We focused ourconstant transformation. Sometimes the shift from
ceremony on honoring our child within. We broughtone thing to another expresses in a subtle and
pictures of ourselves as children, made a bunny cake,gradual change and sometimes it is quick and
ate candy, blew bubbles, sang children's songs, andimpactful. Yet the undercurrent of motion keeps the
laughed all evening. The upliftment we generatedenergy turning.