| Anyone interested in magic has heard the "rules" that | | | | work just fine in this manner. Let the universe bring |
| love magic is wrong because it interferes with | | | | someone to you, rather than you choosing someone. |
| someone's free will. The whole concept of love spells | | | | But just because you haven't specified anyone, |
| can be seen as questionable if you take that | | | | doesn't mean that they are not effected by your |
| approach. The reality is that the ethical viewpoint of | | | | magic. Would this still not interfere with their free will? |
| love magic isn't quite so black and white, and not all | | | | That's a question you will have to answer for |
| Pagans or witches have the same opinion on the | | | | yourself. So even a general non-specific spell may not |
| matter. So don't just blindly accept that notion | | | | be perfect, depending on how you look at it. |
| without some thought. | | | | What if you are already in a relationship, and you |
| The real problem is the "typical" love spell that you | | | | want to help mend problems or improve things with |
| might cast on someone to make them love you. | | | | your partner? Another questionable area, but most |
| Very few people would argue that this is the | | | | people consider it an acceptable place for magic if |
| unethical part. And it's not even worth trying because | | | | you at least tell your partner that you are doing it. |
| the love isn't real and the relationship will certainly fail, | | | | In my opinion, the very best form of love magic that |
| usually after a very short time. The person you want | | | | doesn't alter anyone's free will is the kind of magic |
| will not naturally fall in love with you once the spell is | | | | you do on yourself. Work on your own qualities to |
| finished, nor will you be able to change their feelings | | | | make yourself more attractive. I don't mean silly |
| any more than you could before the spell. | | | | glamour spells to change your hair colour, either. |
| But that doesn't mean all love magic should be | | | | Develop more confidence and become more |
| shunned. This is where you get into a grey area, and | | | | outgoing, and you will likely find it easier to meet |
| personal ethics can vary. The most acceptable way | | | | someone special. This is really the only kind of love |
| of casting a love spell is to keep it general, and not | | | | magic that bypasses the ethics issue since you are |
| targeted towards any specific person. As long as you | | | | only doing it on yourself. |
| can keep certain people out of your mind during the | | | | And remember that magic does have limitations, |
| spell, this is a perfectly acceptable way of doing love | | | | especially if you are new at it. If you sit at home |
| magic. | | | | every day, spells aren't going to conjure someone to |
| A general spell might be looked at like a magnet, just | | | | come knock on your door. Once the spell is in |
| drawing love into your life. Spells with rose quartz, | | | | motion, you need to do your part by getting out and |
| patchouli, lavender, red roses, or orris root would all | | | | being social. |